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Adventures of a self identified pain slut.

Hi there! I’m Writer Kiel, and I’m a total pain slut! 🙂 Yes, it’s true. By day, mild mannered Kiel is just another hard working American citizen who seeks to enrich his life through open sexuality, orgies, and the more-than-frequent late night jaunts to Pho and taco joints. But behind this subtle demure, lies a submissive, flog-craving, cross-strapped whipping boy! Tie me down! Make me yours! Beat me into submission! And PLEASE remember my safe phrase is “Michael Bay is a Genius!” But seriously, folks… There are many sound schools of thought concerning the ideal/ideology of BDSM. This is SOOOO not that! This is just an offering of my pain/DOM experience. And if you are exploring an alternative sexual/relationship life style, you know what’s best for you. Information and advice should and w...

So Your Partner is a Swinger: How I Adapted to This Amazing Lifestyle?

I went on a date with a girl once. We met online, as is not uncommon these days. After all, we rely on Netflix for entertainment, Grubhub for our dinner, and Amazon for our dildos and craft-made Belgian waffle irons. And dating online isn’t really a new concept. But who you meet…well, that landscape is forever changing. You see the girl I met that night was involved in a world that I had never explored, but certainly had been fascinated with, and for all intents and purposes knew nothing of the 21st century goings-on. You see, she’s a Swinger.   I am 80’s child, which means by the time I was in my formative years, the idea of sex being prevalent in society was really no longer a taboo.  T.V., movies and advertisements were all about sex and sexual appeal. It sold it, it touched on it, but ...

Characteristics of the Boobman, Assman, and Legman. This is Scientific. LOL

I managed to hunt down a study that shows the characteristics of the Boobman, Assman, and Legman. First though, I could not find any studies that investigated what non-obvious correlates there may be of breast size, rump size, or leg length. So I can’t back up the observation that larger breasts, as opposed to say a rounder butt, make a woman more likely to get married. The idea is not ridiculous: females vary in their reproductive strategies, some specializing in shorter-term and some in longer-term relationships, for example. And like many strategic choices, there is likely a trade-off: to wit, between investing a finite amount of body fat more in the upper or more in the lower region. Larger breasts could reflect pleiotropic effects of genes that also contribute to being more focu...

Study Shows What Men Really Think About Lingerie…

We are definitely of the mind-set that we women should wear whatever we see fit—regardless of what the opposite sex thinks of it. But if there’s one item that women tend to wear at least in part to please their romantic partners, it’s arguably lingerie. This is partly why we find Huffington Post’s recent study so fascinating—it teamed up with AskMen.com to conduct a poll asking men what types of bras, panties, and more they find most alluring. Polling more than 2,700 men, the sites requested respondents’ preferences on women’s lingerie, and as you might expect, what most men are into is not necessarily what most women are into. According to the poll results, men prefer (wait for it!) push-up bras and thongs above all other forms of lingerie. Coming in a close ...

Why Are Lesbians So Attractive to Men? Find Out Here…

Two lesbians ask a woman what she thinks of two gay men having sex and the response might be anything from generally ambivalent acceptance to “Ewww.” Ask a man about two women having sex and the response will almost always invariably be “Can I watch?” Let’s face it: Lesbians are hot. Why are men so obsessed with lesbians? Technically, the idea of lesbianism should be really irritating to men because it takes not one, but two, eligible women off the market. Still, there are reasons why men might not mind the idea of a woman who prefers the company of other women. Do men think they can “turn” lesbians? The prevailing opinion of the average man when they see a lesbian is that she just hasn’t been with a real man yet. If the lesbian in question is particularly appealing to a man, he will see t...

What Are Top 10 Sexual Fetishes? Find Out Here…

Most people just want to know if they fall on the sexually “normal” spectrum, typically to justify what’s going through their mind when they are fantasizing. The truth is, there is no normal when it comes to sex; the only constants are diversity and variation, because we are all different in our sexual desires! As long as there’s mutual consent and satisfaction with your partner, it really doesn’t matter what you chalk up to normal. So, what’s the difference between a fantasy and a fetish? A fantasy is something you spend a good amount thinking about while having sex or masturbating. Some of these fantasies are high up on your sexual bucket list and some you’d prefer never to see the light of day. A fetish, however, is something that HAS to be present for you to achieve arousal and orgasm....